A sense of purpose is important for all of us. And while it may not seem obvious, that includes children, too. According to educational psychologist Dr. Michele Borba, having a sense of purpose is crucial for children’s mental health and overall well-being.
Borba, author of “Thrivers: The Surprising Reasons Why Some Kids Struggle and Others Shine,” highlights the significance of helping kids discover what gives them meaning and pride. She suggests that parents engage with their children, ask questions about their interests, and encourage them to explore different activities to spark their passion.
Clinical psychologist Dr. Lauren Phillips also emphasizes the role of self-worth in developing a sense of purpose. By allowing children to freely express themselves without judgment, parents can help them build self-awareness and self-assurance.
Experts recommend seven tips for parents to help their kids find their purpose:
1. Help them find their spark by discovering their interests.
2. Encourage free expression without judgment.
3. Ask ‘Why?’ to gauge their level of interest.
4. Provide variety in activities to pinpoint what sparks their interest.
5. Offer community and mentorship outside the home.
6. Build an entrepreneurial spirit by exposing them to work experiences.
7. Encourage ‘generativity’ by teaching their knowledge to others.
By following these tips, parents can play a crucial role in helping their children develop a sense of purpose, which ultimately contributes to their happiness and overall well-being. Experts emphasize the importance of allowing children to explore their interests and passions, guiding them towards a path that aligns with their true selves.